by singleandalmost30
I saw this question on another blog and stole it…thought it was interesting. Yikes, honestly, I don’t know! As I believe it totally depends on the situation. But that is just me…now I’m posing the question to you:
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Is it okay to stop speaking to and associating with friends that remains friendly with your “Ex” (a person who hurt you badly)?
Yes…No…Maybe…depends on the situation? What do you think?
Dating Friends Life
by singleandalmost30
Update…so I had a conversation with him via IM and made my intentions very clear. While, it was a pleasant conversation and I appreciated the updates, I really wanted to cease communication with him.
He seemed to take it well and hopefully, he’ll respect my request. But only time will tell…
I really wish there was some way he and I could be friends, because I really enjoy conversing with him, however I am not that strong. I cannot be friends with him without catching feelings. Basically, my life is so much easier when we do not communicate…
Dating Life
by singleandalmost30
So…here we are in 2010 and I’m still getting emails from the “ex.” Nothing of worth really, just random forwards every week or two. The problem…towards the end of last year, I told him to leave me alone and never contact me again. That lasted about a month and now, I see his email address in my inbox every week. I don’t know what else to do or what else I can say to him. I don’t want to contact him…b/c I promised myself I wouldn’t anymore…but I really want him to delete me from all of his contact lists.
Sigh…I don’t know what to do. I wish I could block his email address…but I can’t, for some reason my account doesn’t allow it…I tried filtering his emails…but then I found myself checking to see if he did indeed email me…which defeats the point. I just want to move on…sad thing…everytime, I get close to moving on, I get an email from him. It’s like he knows just when to suck me back in. I’m tired of thinking about him and hoping he’d realize what a great catch I am.
Sigh…I don’t know what to do.
Dating Life
by singleandalmost30
I have to be completely honest, at this moment and time, I am OVER people. I’m over men…over fake friends…friends you bend over backwards for but then don’t hear from them in months or in your own time of need…over friends that only want to chat with you when they have a problem…over people who only communicate via email, text or via facebook…over lame co-workers, classmates and professors.
The only things I’m not over are God…my family…my real friends…life and true love. Today, is the beginning of the rest of my life and I’m happy to leave the past in the past and look to my brighter future.
I’m tired of letting others’ opinions of me, dictate how I do things. 2010 is going to be my coming out year of some sorts…
Dating Family Friends Life religion School
by singleandalmost30
Today is the first day of no communication with “him,” hopefully I’ll make it through the day without a text or email. Here’s hoping I have enough will power not to respond. I have to take this one day at a time, so this time I will actually get over him.
I apologize for spending so much time on this guy…I now know that he’s not as concerned about me as I was with him. I also understand that I need and deserve better. I need and deserve someone who will love, respect, communicate and be honest with me and appreciate everything that I am and bring to the relationship.
Thank you.
Dating Life
